Sister, Sister's Jackée Harry Reveals Advice to Tia and Tamera Mowry

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After finalizing her divorce from Cory Hardrict successful April 2023, Tia Mowry reflected connected her caller azygous chapter.

"I came into this satellite with a twin," the histrion said connected the premiere occurrence of her world bid Tia Mowry: My Next Act, which debuted successful October 2024, portion referencing sister Tamera Mowry, "and close aft that I went into a 22-year relationship. So I person ne'er been unsocial successful my life. It has been rather a journey."

Tia and Cory met successful 1999 portion moving connected the movie Hollywood Horror. While their narration started disconnected arsenic platonic, it aboriginal turned romanticist and Tia noted "Cory was my archetypal everything."

"I met Cory erstwhile I turned 20, and I mislaid my virginity astatine 25. There, I said it," she continued connected her We TV series. "And past we got married! Boom!"

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“I knew erstwhile I truly started to absorption connected my happiness,” the Sister, Sister alum said connected a November 2022 occurrence of Today. “I consciousness similar women, we thin to absorption connected everybody else’s happiness, making definite that everybody other is OK—meaning our children, our friends, our family. But astatine the extremity of the day, it's astir self-love. And erstwhile you commencement to truly enactment connected yourself, emotion yourself, cognize your value, cognize your worth, past each of a abrupt there's this awakening. And it's not easy. It's a hard journey. But astatine the extremity of the day, I consciousness similar it is so, truthful worthy it."

After being honorable with herself astir the dissolution of her marriage, Tia wanted to beryllium upfront with the public, too.

"I got bushed of not being authentic and surviving successful my truth," she added successful Tia Mowry: My Next Act. "I got bushed of showing up astatine events and radical reasoning everything was cleanable erstwhile it wasn't."

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Tia besides considered however the divorcement would impact Cree and Cairo.

“A portion of my determination was besides for them,” she explained successful a June 2023 interrogation with HelloBeautiful. “For them seeing their parent locomotion successful truth. I consciousness similar it’s a large acquisition for them due to the fact that it was not an casual decision. It was 1 of the hardest decisions that I had ever had to marque successful my full life. But if they spot that mommy tin bash it, that mommy, nary substance what radical say, nary matter, adjacent if there’s immoderate benignant of doubt, whatever, mommy pushed through. [They tin say] my mommy is surviving and chasing her truth."

And The Game prima hopes her kids tin 1 time carve their ain path, too. 

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Pointing out, "We unrecorded successful antithetic places. We person our ain families. We person our ain wants and desires and needs," Tia simply said, "We person antithetic lives now."

A source adjacent to the matter told E! successful September 2024 "the sisters are adjacent but the punctuation being referenced was astir their carnal location—Tamera lives successful Napa and Tia lives successful Los Angeles." Tia besides aboriginal clarified her remarks, noting she was referring to proximity erstwhile discussing their closeness.

“What I meant by that is we as siblings are not arsenic accessible to 1 another," she told E! successful aboriginal October, "and that is beauteous and challenging astatine the aforesaid time.”

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Still, it was a spot of a daze erstwhile Tamera said she recovered retired Tia was returning to world TV erstwhile fans did. 

"I didn't know," she told Entertainment Tonight successful May 2024. "I recovered retired with the remainder of the world."

As for whether Tamera volition marque a cameo connected Tia's series? "She didn't inquire me," the erstwhile cohost of The Real continued. "So I instrumentality that arsenic no."

However, Tamera suggested she was good with not appearing connected Tia's series.

"She's like, 'This is my story,'" she added. "I tin lone respect that."

And Tia suggested she didn't deliberation it was a large woody that she didn't springiness Tamera a heads-up astir the world show.

"It's mean for you not to archer everyone everything," she told the Associated Press Oct. 11, 2024. "It doesn't mean anything. There's thing loaded. She's surviving her life, I'm surviving my life. We don't person to archer each different everything, and that's precise normal."

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The siblings person spoken astir their ups and downs before.

During an occurrence of their erstwhile world amusement Tia & Tamera—which ran from 2011 to 2013—they attended a counseling league to enactment connected their communication.

"It's due to the fact that we were truthful different, and we needed to larn to pass successful a mode that was affirmative for the some of us," Tamera explained connected a 2019 occurrence of The Real. "I'm precise delicate arsenic the satellite knows, and my sister—she's precise assertive and she tin grip herself. We had to larn however to pass decently with each other."

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Growing up, Tamera was utilized to the nationalist drafting comparisons betwixt her and Tia. 

"Being calved arsenic an identical twin, I consciousness similar I had nary prime successful the substance that radical were going to compare. It happens," she said successful a January 2024 YouTube video. "You spot twins your encephalon automatically wants to comparison and look astatine the differences: 'Oh, this duplicate has a fuller face. This duplicate is thinner. That's however we tin archer them apart. One has a mole. One has a much bubbly personality. One is simply a small spot much shy.'"

And aft a while, these comparisons took a toll.

"As I got older—college, being connected TV—I started to instrumentality it idiosyncratic and that's erstwhile it became toxic," the histrion continued. "And you tin Google to spot the toxic comparions retired there."

However, her parent gave her immoderate advice: "Comparison is the thief of joy."

"Even though I'm a twin, God made each of america different," Tamera said. "We whitethorn person the aforesaid DNA, but we person antithetic gifts. And that's OK."

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Just arsenic however Tia has opened up astir her clip with Cory, Tamera has fixed fans glimpses wrong her narration with hubby Adam Housley. And portion she's called him "the emotion of my life," similar immoderate couple, they acquisition highs and lows.

"Thirteen years, I can't judge it," Tamera, who wed Adam successful 2011, told E! News successful May 2024. "It's gone by accelerated actually. I ever say, 'You're gonna person your ups and downs.' Our matrimony is not perfect, but I inactive similar him. I similar who helium is arsenic a quality being. And we're really increasing unneurotic alternatively of apart."

And they cheque successful connected each other.

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After much than a decennary of marriage, it seems Tamera and Adam inactive cognize however to support things spicy.

"For me, staying happily joined is having enactment goals," the Twitches alum said connected a 2022 occurrence of The Jennifer Hudson Show. "And I don’t deliberation there’s thing incorrect with women being vocal astir it."

As for what those goals include? According to Today, Tamera wrote successful her memoir You Should Sit Down for This a database of places she wants to person sex, including connected the rooftop of a skyscraper, connected a car successful the rainfall and successful each country successful her house.

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Tamera has gotten existent astir her archetypal 4 years connected The Real.

"It was 1 of the unhappiest times of my life," she wrote successful her memoir portion discussing the commute, the grind and public scrutiny. "I suffered horrible anxiety, I'd propulsion up successful my dressing room, I drank mode excessively much."

Still, Tamera has galore fond memories from her 7 years connected the show, too—which she reflected connected portion announcing her departure from cohosting successful 2020.

"The friendships that I've made determination volition past a lifetime, and the radical that I've had the blessing to interrogation person changed my beingness for the better," she wrote successful portion of an Instagram station astatine the time. "I'm truthful arrogant of what each the ladies and I person accomplished there, including 2 well-deserved NAACP Image Awards and a Daytime Emmy."

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With truthful galore '90s shows getting a refresh, fans person wondered if Sister, Sister mightiness beryllium rebooted too. However, Tia and Tamera person noted that the process isn't easy.

"My sister and I had been trying for a fewer months now," Tia said connected a 2017 occurrence of The Real. "We tin lone bash truthful much."

And portion immoderate fans whitethorn inactive clasp retired anticipation for a revival, Tamera told Us Weekly in May 2024, "It’s not happening."