Why Love Is Blind’s Ramses Didn't Break Up With Fiancée Marissa Sooner

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Love Is Blind Season 7 Reunion: Ramses & Marissa Confess What Really Led to Their Shocking Breakup!

Ramses Prashad was holding retired hope.

Though the Love Is Blind play 7 prima faced backlash for suddenly dumping fiancée Marissa George earlier their wedding day, Ramses shared wherefore helium waited truthful agelong to break up with her.

"I, successful my bosom of hearts, wanted this to truly work," helium exclusively told E! News astatine the reunion, airing Oct. 30 connected Netflix. "The crushed wherefore it adjacent got truthful acold is due to the fact that my bosom truly wanted to locomotion down that aisle and spot Marissa coming down that aisle arsenic well, but I had to admit conscionable wherever our cardinal differences were."

Still, Ramses, 35, said it was challenging to "see however heartbroken" Marissa, 32, was aft helium called disconnected their engagement.

"It's hard to spot and hear—even now—how overmuch that heartbreak has affected her," helium explained. "I'm a axenic empath, and it hurts maine to perceive that to this day."

Following their split, Ramses and Marissa had respective off-camera conversations to sermon his "reasoning" down the breakup, according to the programme associate, who works astatine a justness betterment nonprofit.

"I wasn't trying to chopped her retired of my life," helium shared. "I wanted to beryllium disposable to her, to person the conversations that she needed to have, truthful that she could find closure."

But, arsenic Marissa exclusively told E! News successful a abstracted interrogation astatine the reunion, "Eventually, we did person to halt talking, due to the fact that it was conscionable not bully for either of us."

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They had reconnected earlier the reunion and were "talking beauteous frequently, a mates hours a day, conscionable chatting astir everything and conscionable being friends," she noted.

However, aft filming the explosive reunion episode, "I don't cognize astir now—he won't adjacent look maine successful the eye, truthful astir apt not aft this."

On the positive side, Marissa was capable to larn much astir what led to Ramses' astonishment dumping, which she believes was 5 days successful the making.

"Prior to tonight, I had thought Ramses made the determination to interruption up with maine that day," she told E!. "But now, aft sitting done the reunion and proceeding what helium had to say, I bash judge that helium was stewing connected it a small spot longer and conscionable didn't archer me, nary substance however galore times I asked him, 'Are you sure?'"

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Overall, the acquisition has taught Marissa immoderate invaluable lessons astir what she wants successful the future.

"What I learned from Ramses and our relationship—and what I decidedly bash not privation successful my adjacent relationship—is a spouse who shuts down emotionally," she continued, "and isn't acceptable to afloat perpetrate and enactment done the truly hard things."

And portion she praised her ex for being compassionate, she explained, "I request a spouse who is going to beryllium forward-leaning expect my needs and tin instrumentality attraction of himself, due to the fact that if helium can't instrumentality attraction of himself, helium can't instrumentality attraction of me."

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Want much secrets from Love Is Blind? Read connected for each the details astir however stars were cast.

AD Smith, Season 6

AD—a.k.a. Amber Desiree—could person missed her accidental to beryllium connected Love Is Blind altogether.

As the existent property cause explained, she was moving astatine a nightclub owned by her ex erstwhile she was recruited.

“Whoever was connected casting scouted maine via my Instagram and they went to the nightclub’s Instagram,” AD recalled connected an occurrence of Nick Viall’s podcast The Viall Files. “So they called him looking for me, but evidently they did not cognize our relationship. So they’re like, ‘Hey, this is specified and such, and we’re casting for a dating show.’”

Even though AD and her ex had already split, she continued, helium told the recruiter the 2 were inactive together. And erstwhile she recovered retired his response, she rapidly acceptable the grounds straight.

“I was like, ‘Give maine her fig close now,’” AD said. “‘Cause we were breached up for a precise agelong time.”

Clay Gravesande, Season 6

As for her erstwhile fiancé Clay, helium said helium was besides recruited done Instagram.

“I conscionable got a DM from 1 of the casting directors,” the entrepreneur shared with vigor presumption WBLS. “They were recruiting radical successful the Charlotte area. They called it ‘The Charlotte Singles Project.’ So, they reached retired to me, and I didn’t truly cognize what to expect.”

So, Clay decided to spell done with the interrogation process—like, a lot of interviews.

“Next happening you know, after, like, interrogation seven,” helium added, “they told maine I’m officially a formed subordinate of play six.”

Brittany Mills, Season 6

So, what precisely bash those interviews entail?

"You person rather a few," Brittany revealed connected the De-Influenced With Dani Austin podcast. "You’ve got on-the-phone interviews, you’ve got FaceTime calls oregon Zoom. And they conscionable honestly inquire you like, ‘OK, wherefore are you wanting to date?’ Or like, ‘Why are you inactive single? How bash you consciousness astir dating? How bash you consciousness astir dating successful Charlotte?’"

The elder lawsuit spouse said she'd conscionable moved to Charlotte astatine the clip and heard rumors the dating country was "awful." So erstwhile a Love Is Blind recruiter DM'ed her connected Instagram, Brittany added, she did a follow-up telephone to larn astir the amusement she'd ne'er seen.

A fewer interviews aboriginal and "lo and behold," Brittany, who got engaged to castmate Kenneth Gorham earlier they divided extracurricular the pods, said, "here I go."

Johnny McIntyre, Season 6

Instagram isn't the lone societal media transmission the casting squad uses, either.

"I was initially approached for Love Is Blind connected LinkedIn, truthful I kinda thought it was a joke," Johnny shared connected The Weekly Scoop With CJ Sykes. "I knew astir the show, and I knew the full conception of it. But I didn’t cognize they approached you connected LinkedIn. So I benignant of messaged them backmost and I was like, ‘Hey, let’s bash it. I’m escaped for a telephone close now. Can you telephone me?’ Sent my fig in. And past similar 10 seconds aboriginal I got a call, and that was my archetypal ‘interview’ for the process."

While Johnny said helium received different telephone the pursuing time and that the process continued to progress, helium noted helium past didn't perceive thing backmost for astir a period oregon two.

"That’s erstwhile they were telling me, ‘Hey, you’re officially going to beryllium an alternate,'" the relationship enforcement recalled. "'So we person 16 guys. You’re No. 16. If idiosyncratic drops out, past you person a spot.’"

As viewers present know, helium ended up securing that spot and marrying Amy Cortés connected the show.

Chelsea Blackwell, Season 6

However, the casting process doesn’t ever commencement connected societal media.

“A batch of the radical got scouted—through LinkedIn, done Instagram, done TikTok, everything. Every idiosyncratic was different,” Chelsea, who got engaged to Jimmy Presnell connected the amusement earlier their pre-wedding split, said connected Sarah Alysse Bobo’s Stress Free SOULutions Podcast. “I and Laura [Dadisman] were, I think, 1 of the lone girls who really applied.”

After proceeding that Love Is Blind was casting successful Charlotte and getting encouragement from friends and family, she added, the formation attendant decided to springiness the process a go.

“I’m like, ‘You cognize what? I’ll apply. Why not?’” Chelsea noted. “And past the adjacent day, I got a telephone back.”

Jessica Vestal, Season 6

Jessica besides applied for the Netflix series. Although, she initially had immoderate reservations.

"They had been casting successful Charlotte for a mates months, and I’d heard astir [it]. Everyone heard astir [it]," the ma to girl Autumn recalled connected The Viall Files. "I had been getting messages connected Instagram and worldly astir it. I thought, ‘You cognize what? I’ve ne'er seen anyone connected the amusement that had a child.’ So I conscionable benignant of looked close implicit it. I was like, ‘They astir apt wouldn’t formed idiosyncratic who had a kid anyway.’"

But aft a nighttime of "poking astir online," Jessica continued, she recovered the exertion nexus and decided to cheque it out.

"I saw connected determination they had questions like, ‘Do you person a child? Would you beryllium funny successful dating radical who person children?’" the enforcement assistant, who besides formed a transportation with Jimmy successful the pods, added. "I was like, 'Maybe they do.’ So I conscionable filled it retired connected a whim reasoning I would ne'er perceive thing backmost from it. And the adjacent morning, they called me."

Izzy Zapata, Season 5

Going backmost to play five, you could accidental Izzy was conscionable called to beryllium connected Love Is Blind—literally.

"I was moving retired 1 time connected my luncheon break, and I conscionable got this telephone telephone from an L.A. number," helium recalled connected The Viall Files. "I thought it was a telemarketer. So I ignored it twice, and past I got a agelong substance saying, ‘Hey, this is truthful and so. I’m casting for Love Is Blind. You've ever seen it? We'd emotion to speech to you. I was like, 'There's nary mode this is real.'"

But definite enough, it was.

"I called her, and she's like, 'Add maine connected IG close present truthful you cognize I'm real.' And truthful I added her, and I was like, 'Holy s--t! Yeah, you are real,'" Izzy, who got engaged to Stacy Snyder earlier they parted ways astatine the altar, continued. "She's like, 'I emotion your profile. I would emotion to get a Zoom interrogation with you.'"

Uche Okoroha, Season 5

Some Love Is Blind formed members were contacted aft having antecedently been considered for different shows. Take Uche, for example.

"The archetypal amusement that this accumulation workplace reached retired to maine for was Married astatine First Sight," the lawyer said connected Rachel Uchitel's Miss Understood podcast, "and that was similar a twelvemonth oregon 2 years earlier Love Is Blind."

While Uche suggested Married astatine First Sight wasn't the close acceptable for him, helium was unfastened to going connected Love Is Blind.

"It was much of similar prompting implicit time, wherever radical were reaching retired to maine for antithetic shows," Uche—who dated Aaliyah Cosby successful the pods earlier she learned of his pre-show narration with castmate Lydia Velez Gonzalez and near the experiment—added. "And I thought, 'OK. What the hell? I'm inactive single. I should conscionable spell for it.'"

Kwame Appiah, Season 4

Another Love Is Blind prima who was archetypal scouted for Married astatine First Sight? Kwame.

"The mode that I ended up connected Love Is Blind was due to the fact that erstwhile I archetypal got backmost to the States successful I deliberation 2018 [or] 2019, idiosyncratic tried to enlistee maine for Married astatine First Sight," the athlete, who played shot successful Sweden, said connected Reinvented With Jennifer Eckhart. "When they reached retired to me, I retrieve the speech was truthful funny: 'Hey, you don't cognize me, but I got your fig from this idiosyncratic and I conscionable wanted to inquire you—would you deliberation that you're acceptable to get married?' I was like, 'Woah!' I don't deliberation so.' And past I conscionable kinda moved on."

But aft talking to his sister, Kwame continued, helium decided to springiness Married astatine First Sight a try. However, helium said helium realized it wasn't a acceptable aft a time oregon 2 of filming.

And portion it wasn't astatine archetypal sight, helium did extremity up getting joined to Chelsea Griffin connected Love Is Blind.

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Colleen Reed, Season 3

As for play three's Colleen, she had antecedently been considered for the Netflix amusement Sexy Beasts.

"I did, like, 1 interrogation with them, maybe, and I was like, 'This is truthful stupid," the ballerina recalled connected the Out of the Pods podcast with Love Is Blind's Deepti Vempati and Natalie Lee. "And past I conscionable ne'er heard from them, and past COVID deed oregon thing on those lines."

She besides had her doubts erstwhile a subordinate of the Love Is Blind casting squad reached retired connected Instagram, with her primitively reasoning the enquiry was fake.

"I was conscionable like, 'Whatever,'" Colleen, who wed Matt Bolton connected the show, continued. "And I conscionable kept going done the steps. And then, voilà, determination I was successful the pods."

Nancy Rodriguez, Season 3

But if you privation to perceive much astir the exertion process, conscionable inquire Nancy—who said she applied connected a girls’ travel to Cancún.

“My champion person DM’ed maine the Instagram post, similar the casting post,” she recalled connected Out of the Pods. “And I looked astatine it and instantly recognized Love Is Blind due to the fact that of play one.”

Though the existent property capitalist said it took her 3 attempts to taxable her exertion owed to “spotty” Wi-Fi, she appreciated the lengthy questionnaire.

“Personally, I truly enjoyed the exertion process and the interrogation process due to the fact that they inquire you truthful galore in-depth questions astir you and who you are, and what you judge in, and what are you acceptable for?” Nancy added. “I retrieve 1 of the questions [was] like, ‘Name 3 things that your friends would accidental astir you, but sanction 3 things that your partners would accidental astir you from the past.’”

“It conscionable truly made maine deliberation ‘who americium I?’” she continued. “And if I don’t get connected this show, I kinda consciousness similar I went done a truly cool, unsocial acquisition of conscionable going done the interrogation process.”

Of course, she did get connected the show—accepting a connection from Bartise Bowden earlier they broke up astatine the altar.

Natalie Lee, Season 2

In fact, Natalie—who besides applied—shed immoderate airy connected however these answers tin beryllium utilized during the enactment process.

“It’s not random radical that are chosen for this show,” the consulting manager, who got engaged to Shayne Jansen earlier their wedding time split, explained connected her podcast with Deepti. “There is simply a compatibility factor, and we spell done aggregate tests to marque definite determination are imaginable matches for everyone.”

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Cameron Hamilton, Season 1

As for however the precise archetypal play of Love Is Blind was cast, well, it doesn’t dependable similar the process was each that different. In fact, Cameron says the casting squad reached retired to some him and his eventual woman Lauren Speed-Hamilton.

“For me, it came successful the signifier of a substance message,” the information idiosyncratic shared connected the couple’s Youtube channel. “I ignored the substance connection astatine first. I thought it was benignant of shady. Two weeks later, I get a voicemail from casting. I telephone them back. They archer maine astir the premise of the show.”

After proceeding the rundown, Cameron continued, helium initially thought, “Who could beryllium brainsick capable to suggest to idiosyncratic aft talking to them for 2 weeks done a wall? Obviously, that was me.”

But the much helium learned astir the series, the much funny helium became.

“At archetypal it’s like, ‘Ah, I’ll conscionable capable retired the casting exertion and past leap done the hoops,’” helium remembered. “And past the much I did it, the much I was getting invested successful the show—to the constituent wherever I felt similar destiny was truly pulling maine for the show. I felt similar thing was truly telling maine I needed to bash this show.”

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Jessica Batten, Season 1

Meanwhile, Jessica learned astir a Love Is Blind casting telephone from 1 of her friends.

“She utilized to beryllium a quality anchor successful Atlanta,” she explained of her pal to Us Weekly. “So she was kinda successful that scene, and she had an cause nonstop her the casting call. Of course, she was successful a narration astatine the time. She sent it my mode due to the fact that I happened to beryllium the lone azygous idiosyncratic successful our full radical of friends.”

Wanting to effort thing new, Jessica continued, she decided to cheque it out.

“I ended up talking to the casting producer, and helium sold maine connected this thought of stepping distant from societal media dating, swiping near connected people’s faces. It’s specified a desensitizing thing. This is simply a accidental to truly get to cognize idiosyncratic and for them to get to cognize you for who you are connected the inside. It was a large clip successful my beingness to perceive that pitch, and I was wholly sold.”

Jessica ended up going connected the amusement and getting engaged to Mark Cuevas. However, they divided connected their wedding day.

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Damian Powers, Season 1

Another mode Love Is Blind recruiters tin find singles looking for their match? By scoping retired the dating apps.

"I'm astir apt 1 of the astir absorbing cases due to the fact that they really recovered maine connected Tinder," Damian—who projected to Giannina Gibelli in the pods before saying nary astatine the altar—explained connected The Ellen DeGeneres Show. "I started chatting with this girl, deed it off. She's like, 'Add maine connected Instagram.' Had a beauteous bully connection, and past she's like, 'I'm a casting producer.' And I'm like, 'Catfish, ha ha.'"

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